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The Lifted Hearts Community is... "Empathy and understanding. Open  hearted. Honest and truthful. Enlightening. Unconditional. Non-judgmental. Encouraging. Warm and friendly..."

...Compassion
...Integrity
..Reason
..Caring
..Lively*
..Endurance
*
(what other breakup board contains book reviews, weather reports, poetry postings, and 'writerly' diary entries?)

....and don't forget HOPE itself...
That's what I've found here. It's so great to see that others have survived, or are surviving, what you're going through. Seeing others' progress and even setbacks help you to understand that what you're experiencing is normal.


Lifted Hearts is wonderful b/c

  • it helps us get through the day with the advice of others
  • it's important to realize that there are others like you that are going through the same situation as you
  • you meet people that live in a different country that are trying to help you too
  • you can help others
  • and post all you want and not get a "Oh god, not again" sigh.

And how about these wondrous acclamations:

  1. we love and care for each other
  2. our lives and emotions have truly improved since we came here
  3. you are a hot mamma!
  4. NR is a stud muffin!
  5. there is no greater catharsis than writing and posting your feelings here, for all the world to see!

1) Compassion and Caring begins the Circle
2) Friendship and Understanding builds the Circle
3) Courageousness and Healing Maintains the Circle
4) Thought, Acceptance, and Forgiveness binds the Circle
5) Love, Hugs, and Peace Completes the Circle

"I feel like everyone around me is sick of my heartbreak... I know I am! But healing doesn't happen in anyone else's time line, and by coming here we see people in all phases of the process. We have hope that we'll get better, but it's okay to be right where we are."

"I have to say that the name 'Tigress Luv', initially, to a 'stiff upper lip' Brit, sounded a bit offputting, but when I started to read the stuff about relationship break ups, having just suffered a second break up with a man I still love dearly, the 'How to Stop Your Breakup', hit the right note. I joined and have been reading the ebook, and I am gobsmacked, for want of a better word. Tigress could of course, have been writing about me personally, and I am reading the book, finding myself nodding at every comment, and every page. I have committed all of the 'faux pas' Tigress outlines, and can totally, absolutely see the rationale behind her innate logic and commonsense.

Whether my relationship repairs or not, I am already feeling better having read the book. If I only downloaded and read this one book, I would feel it is worth the price of the gold membership. I hope to find time to join in on some of the forums, but am a very busy professional in the (note: industry purposely removed to ensure privacy) world, at the top of my profession, maybe, internationally known, but at the bottom of the heap when it comes to successful relationships.

Thank you Tigress, for your wisdom, humour, and for inspiring hope. I will recommend this site to any friends in future, who suffer the same problems in relationships."

Welcome to the Lifted Hearts Community, formerly known as Heartbroken Anonymous Organization. What makes the Lifted Hearts Community so great? The wonderful people that make up the Community! I love this place, and you will too! Come join in and read our library of 35 FREE breakup and relationship advice ebooks, or visit our  support forums and message boards. Review our very own 12-step Recovery Program. Get the ebooks, or recite our prayer. Check out our latest news and updates or read some of our members' poems! Membership is open to all–all you need is hope, faith, and charity! Here you can be who you truly are–whether that is hurting, or loving, or needy, or growing, or compassionate, or fearful, or funny, or cynical, or wise, or bitter, or even a superstar–it doesn't really matter who you are (we don't care)! All that really matters is that we are here for each other and in unity we have strength! But above all else, we have hope, and hope is what we're all about. A break up doesn't mean the end - it means the beginning.

Join us now!

  • Find the support you need. Without judgment!
  • Friendship without demands.
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  • Love. Hope. Humor. Great advice.
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  • Learn how to get back your boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, and win back their hearts and love.
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"Lets face it: There are numerous help groups for people with all kind of problems such as alcohol, drugs etc. But for most of us, this place is one of the few outlets to go for one of the most difficult obstacles that has been prevalent throughout the ages - A Broken Heart. Unfortunately, my friends and family tire quickly from hearing my dilemma, and I also feel like I'm displaying a weakness to them when I do talk about my ex (I guess it's a guy thing), so being able to correspond with the caring people that are in this community is very uplifting."
~Lifted Hearts member

A heart full of hope is truly a wondrous thing. Hope for a better, brighter future can keep us going through  many difficult times. In this support group, we have more than just hope, we have faith that we can soar past every difficult situation simply through the unity of the support, love, encouragement, and motivation of the beautiful souls that have united together to form our wonderful circle.

Life does, indeed, go on - and it is wonderful!

....I didn't know exactly where I should be, when I was lost in the space that is called the world wide web. I'm unable to say what it was that drew me initially to the link that would bring me here, but once I'd knocked on the door, I knew that it was the right place to dwell for a while. This place has been home to me for the past two weeks. A place of safety, understanding, empathy and non-judgment. I am so thankful that I don't know how to put into words what I feel."

Why a Broken Hearts Community?

Because...

Breaking up is hard to do! It is amazing how–when we endure years of drug/alcohol addiction; codependency; or mental, emotional, or physical abuse–that we are comforted and soothed and supported in our recovery efforts: there are hundreds–if not thousands–of recovery programs available to help the alcoholic. However, when a relationship ends after years of it being the center of our universe, we're supposed to just shake the dust off and GET OVER IT!

Get Over It?

Not that simple! Yet, nowhere will you find recovery groups aimed to gain support for those whose entire world has just come crashing down around them. Oh, sure, you can get "therapy" and seek "support from your friends", but for some that isn't enough. Somehow, somewhere, you have to actually receive honest and open support to understand what you are going through, and what some barriers are that can and may prevent you from a full recovery. Somewhere along the line you are going to want to know what went wrong to begin with. Somewhere along the line you will want to speak with others who can relate to your pain and support you in your efforts to recover. And somewhere you need an understanding that you are actually going to grieve...and mourn...and go crazy...and adjust your whole way of living...and scream...and lose reason...and fall...and get up...and stumble...and fight...and resist urges...and experience every emotional feeling available to man to the highest degree of that emotion–and that that is okay! Yet, nowhere is there a recovery program that is aimed at the loss of our dreams. That is why the Lifted Hearts Community was formed. Membership is growing, and the strong show of love and support in the Lifted Hearts Community has already helped many recover from bitter divorces and heartless breakups.

Don't get lost!

Want to join our great community?

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Chances are, if you're coming out of a relationship that ended up in a breakup, that you had pre-breakup foresights for which you had subconsciously selected to ignore. There are certain signs that are present in almost every bad relationship, sometimes we do not recognize them until after the relationship is completely over, after the grieving has finally passed, and when we begin to realize that we actually are starting to feel GOOD...in fact, we feel BETTER THAN EVER!

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It's only the beginning now,
A pathway yet unknown;
At times the sound
of other steps ...
Sometimes we walk alone.

The best beginnings
of our lives
May sometimes
end in sorrow;
But even on our
darkest days ...
The sun will shine tomorrow.

So we must do our very best
Whatever life may bring,
And look beyond
the winter chill ...
To smell the breath
of spring.

Into each life
will always come
A time to start anew;
A new beginning
for each heart ...
As fresh as morning dew.

Although the cares
of life are great
And heads are
bowed so low,
The storms of life
will leave behind ...
The wonder of a rainbow.

The years will
never take away
Our chance to start anew;
It's only the beginning now
So Dreams can
still come true.

~ Gertrude B. McClain ~

Two Keys to Surviving a Breakup: Resources and Support

Relationships are easy to enter, hard to maintain, and painful to leave. The first blush of interest and attraction fuels the passion that ultimately leads to commitment. In the midst of a relationship, all sorts of things can go wrong, from the failure to communicate or taking the other person for granted, to infidelity or abuse. The breakup is heart wrenching for both people, regardless of who initiated the break up and even when there is good reason to split. That's why, whether you're on the verge of breaking up, in the throes of separation, or recovering from heartbreak, it's important to spend the time necessary to heal. The best thing you can do to help this process along involves finding the right support and resources.

Books are Wonderful Resources

Whether your goal is to mend a broken heart, win an ex back and get back together, or to simply move on with your life, you can be sure that others have traveled the same path. Because a breakup can make you feel lost, it's extremely helpful to rely on the advice and experiences of others to put you on the path to healing.

For example, if your boyfriend (or girlfriend) left you - and played the blame game in the process - it's natural to feel unlovable and at fault. Yet, if you look at the situation from the perspective that he or she left because of his or her own dysfunctional psychological issues, you can more clearly see that it's really not about you, and you can more freely move on with your life.

On the other hand, perhaps you contributed to the break up of the relationship. Perhaps you didn't express your appreciation and gratitude often enough, or maybe you didn't give your relationship the priority it deserved. It could be that, instead of tending to your relationship garden, both of you were busy doing other things while the weeds took over. If your heart tells you that your relationship is worth fighting for (not fighting over!), a book can help you navigate the waters of getting back together.

Support is Essential

Few breakups happen overnight, so getting the support you need throughout the process is essential. When it comes to breaking up, help yourself by expressing your feelings and reaching out to others. Writing about your feelings, asking others to listen to you vent, seeking out advice, and reading about the experiences of others are all tools that can help you mourn your loss, regain your sense of self, and move on with your life.

Online Support and Resources

A breakup is one of life's most momentous events, but the people who are closest to you are often not very objective. After all, they may have their own agendas in pushing you toward one course of action or away from another, or perhaps they care too much to cause you any further pain.

When you go online, though, you can find sites that provide both a wealth of downloadable books and support-oriented discussion boards. Instant access to books can be a lifesaver, and discussing your situation and reading about those of others can give you the one-day-at-a-time approach that will see you though every stage of the breakup process. The best sites even have breakup blogs, where you can journal your thoughts and feelings, and can read others' stories.

A breakup is extremely difficult, but you don't have to go it alone. Whether your goal is to mend a broken heart or get back together, find the online support and resources you need.

To read our ebooks about breakup and to gain support throughout your breakup journey please join our support site at: http://liftedhearts.com

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